I am a firm believer that the best physical stimulation starts with building anticipation in an organic way: holding your gaze a beat too long, my body brushing against yours as I take my seat, all the little stolen touches throughout the evening...
Anticipation like this can't be rushed.
As such, I highly prefer and prioritise longer dates - and my small, carefully chosen circle of suitors do too.
If we haven't met yet, I recommend our first introduction to be a 3-4 hour lunch/dinner date. I find this to be the right amount to get to know each other in a relaxed way, give our chemistry room to build and let it take over the rest of our date.
However, I also love a man who knows what he wants (and, better yet, makes it happen!).
I put a lot of effort into making sure my site,
feed,
social media and
newsletters portray me accurately; so if the way I think and see the world resonates with - or intrigues - you and you want our first date to be an overnight or longer, you're guaranteed to make me swoon!
Dates of 3 hours and longer will require sustenance - this could be a dinner out, room service if we caught a show a little too late for anything decent to be open or we could make something together!
(Brownie points if you're the one cooking and my contribution consists of choosing the tunes, sipping on a boutique wine and providing a bit of healthy distraction (whether that's asking questions that might make you ponder things a little too much or, well, I'll let you use your imagination!))
Leisurely dinner date (6h)
Let's make a night of it! We could start with a stroll through a gallery, see a West End show or indulge in a couple's spa treatment - the possibilities are endless! We then enjoy a dinner worth lingering over before, finally, tasting something that not even the most exclusive restaurant has on its menu.
Mine and my clients' personal favourite.
A dinner date is a classic - for a good reason. Really, what is better than unwinding after a long day over a delicious meal, great conversation and even better dessert?
Most popular first-time choice.
Cocktails with a coquette (3h)
Might not be enough time to enjoy (in my case, a plant-based) coq au vin but just enough for some vin* (and, well, perhaps a coq of sorts - for myself, at least!)
Perfect as the first-time minimum.
(*yes, I know wine is not a cocktail but can we just go with it for the alliteration please?)
Short reacquaintance (2h)
Let's get reacquainted, remember what makes each other tick and - of course - act on it!
When you wish to get reacquainted but a dinner or an overnight is not in the cards this time.
Sometimes life just doesn't want to cooperate and only grants a tiny window - so let's savour every minute! After all, it's a taste, not the full feast.
For when life doesn't allow for more moments of bliss.
For those ready to truly indulge...
Night like no other (up to 14h)
Cocktails at the Ritz, a tasting menu somewhere new and then, who knows: maybe we paint the town red or slip away from it entirely. Either way, it will be a night worth a slow morning after.
A lazy breakfast, catching the latest exhibition at Tate, a nap and a cuddle before we get ready for our evening plans. (Yes, our plans include a nap! Quite possibly the biggest luxury in today's world)
The true luxury of a weekend: waking up knowing it doesn't end soon. Perfect for a spa break in the countryside where we surrender to a deep-tissue massage, sink into a candlelit NSDR session and enjoy the simple pleasures of fresh air and the leaves crackling beneath our feet.
Why not take the Friday off to add a cheeky day to our weekend together? Gives us time to collect a few Michelin stars, a private joke (or two!) and a reluctance to give each other back. Ideal for exploring a new city.
The ultimate indulgence (7 days)
A week: long enough for a favourite destination to become ours, for inside jokes to compound and for a small ache when it's over. Sun, culture and unhurried days, wherever we wake up.
You know you want to meet regularly. You might want exclusivity. Or you would like to simply ensure I visit your city (more) often. Whatever the case may be, an arrangement is likely the answer - let's talk about it on our next date.
Leisurely dinner date (6h)
Let's make a night of it! We could start with a stroll through a gallery, see a Crazy Horse show or indulge in a couple's spa treatment - the possibilities are endless! We then enjoy a dinner worth lingering over before, finally, tasting something that not even the most exclusive restaurant has on its menu.
Mine and my clients' personal favourite.
A dinner date is a classic - for a good reason. Really, what is better than unwinding after a long day over a delicious meal, great conversation and even better dessert?
Most popular first-time choice.
Cocktails with a coquette (3h)
Might not be enough time to enjoy (in my case, a plant-based) coq au vin but just enough for some vin* (and, well, perhaps a coq of sorts - for myself, at least!)
Perfect as the first-time minimum.
(*yes, I know wine is not a cocktail but can we just go with it for the alliteration please?)
Short reacquaintance (2h)
Let's get reacquainted, remember what makes each other tick and - of course - act on it!
When you wish to get reacquainted but a dinner or overnight is not in the cards this time.
Sometimes life just doesn't want to cooperate and only grants a tiny window - so let's savour every minute! After all, it's a taste, not the full feast.
For when life doesn't allow for more moments of bliss.
For those ready to truly indulge...
Night like no other (up to 14h)
Cocktails at the Ritz, a tasting menu somewhere new and then, who knows: maybe we paint the town red or slip away from it entirely. Either way, it will be a night worth a slow morning after.
A lazy breakfast, the latest at Hamburger Bahnhof, a nap and a cuddle before we get ready for our evening plans. (Yes, our plans include a nap! Quite possibly the biggest luxury in today's world)
The true luxury of a weekend: waking up knowing it doesn't end soon. Perfect for a spa break in the countryside where we surrender to a deep-tissue massage, sink into a candlelit NSDR session and enjoy the simple pleasures of fresh air and the leaves crackling beneath our feet.
Why not take the Friday off to add a cheeky day to our weekend together? Gives us time to collect a few Michelin stars, a private joke (or two!) and a reluctance to give each other back. Ideal for exploring a new city.
The ultimate indulgence (7 days)
A week: long enough for a favourite destination to become ours, for inside jokes to compound and for a small ache when it's over. Sun, culture and unhurried days, wherever we wake up.
You know you want to meet regularly. You might want exclusivity. Or you would like to simply ensure I visit your city (more) often. Whatever the case may be, an arrangement is likely the answer - let's talk about it on our next date.
Leisurely dinner date (6h)
Let's make a night of it! We could start with a stroll through a gallery, see live music or indulge in a couple's spa treatment - the possibilities are endless! We then enjoy a dinner worth lingering over before, finally, tasting something that not even the most exclusive restaurant has on its menu.
Mine and my clients' personal favourite.
A dinner date is a classic - for a good reason. Really, what is better than unwinding after a long day over a delicious meal, great conversation and even better dessert?
Most popular first-time choice.
Cocktails with a coquette (3h)
Might not be enough time to enjoy (in my case, a plant-based) coq au vin but just enough for some vin* (and, well, perhaps a coq of sorts - for myself, at least!)
Perfect as the first-time minimum.
(*yes, I know wine is not a cocktail but can we just go with it for the alliteration please?)
Short reacquaintance (2h)
Let's get reacquainted, remember what makes each other tick and - of course - act on it!
When you wish to get reacquainted but a dinner or overnight is not in the cards this time.
Sometimes life just doesn't want to cooperate and only grants a tiny window - so let's savour every minute! After all, it's a taste, not the full feast.
For when life doesn't allow for more moments of bliss.
For those ready to truly indulge...
Night like no other (14h)
Cocktails at the Ritz, a tasting menu somewhere new and then, who knows: maybe we paint the town red or slip away from it entirely. Either way, it will be a night worth a slow morning after.
A lazy breakfast, strolling through the Met, a nap and a cuddle before we get ready for our evening plans. (Yes, our plans include a nap! Quite possibly the biggest luxury in today's world)
The true luxury of a weekend: waking up knowing it doesn't end soon. Perfect for a spa break in the countryside where we surrender to a deep-tissue massage, sink into a candlelit NSDR session and enjoy the simple pleasures of fresh air and the leaves crackling beneath our feet.
Why not take the Friday off to add a cheeky day to our weekend together? Gives us time to collect a few Michelin stars, a private joke (or two!) and a reluctance to give each other back. Ideal for exploring a new city.
The ultimate indulgence (7 days)
A week: long enough for a favourite destination to become ours, for inside jokes to compound and for a small ache when it's over. Sun, culture and unhurried days, wherever we wake up.
You know you want to meet regularly. You might want exclusivity. Or you would like to simply ensure I visit your city (more) often. Whatever the case may be, an arrangement is likely the answer - let's talk about it on our next date.
For other durations, please
enquire.
Couples: add £300/h for dates up to 4 hours - for longer dates, please enquire.
I am paid for my time and companionship only. Anything that happens during that time is a matter of personal choice between two consenting adults.
For other durations, please
enquire.
Couples: add €300/h for dates up to 4 hours - for longer dates, please enquire.
I am paid for my time and companionship only. Anything that happens during that time is a matter of personal choice between two consenting adults.
For other durations, please
enquire.
Couples: add $500/h for dates up to 4 hours - for longer dates, please enquire.
I am paid for my time and companionship only. Anything that happens during that time is a matter of personal choice between two consenting adults.
