While I appreciate the freedom routines give me, this is the one part of my life where I'm far from having one.
I meet you with an open mind and an attentive ear, ready to get to know you and what you need in the moment, free of any preconceptions.
Our date develops naturally. There might be certain moments that happen more often than not: deep conversations, carefree laughter, the comfort of simply holding another person (oxytocin is an amazing thing, isn't it?). But what we experience depends on how our connection unfolds, the time in our lives that we meet in, what we seek out of it, and even just the mood we are in that day.
So, there is a certain paradox in setting out to describe our time together. Every date has its own unique flavour, yet, I find they all share one thing in common: holding space.
That phrase might be a little overused nowadays so there is a certain hesitation about using it myself but it is the most apt description of our dynamic so I shall get over that fact (I'm not interested in being a contrarian just for the sake of it anyway!).
Whatever form our date takes - a week-long adventure, slow weekend at a chalet with the pup or unwinding after a hectic day over dinner - it is a space that is there for you. Not in a selfish or self-absorbed way but simply in a way that you don't get elsewhere in your life.
A space where you can be you, where you are seen, truly listened to and free to fully express yourself, whether that is emotionally, physically or intellectually - or all three.
There sure are firm favourites for date activities - both in general and my own! While we might opt for the classics like a dinner and a show or a spa getaway, we can also just go on a hike (with or without
Leanne!) or hop on the
Orient Express for some unique memories!
If you are not too sure where you would like to go or simply don't have the bandwidth to be researching places, just let me know where you are staying (or what general mood you are in for day-long engagements or longer) and I'll get back to you with a few options - my Google Maps lists
are extensive and my type A self relishes the planning anyway!
Of course this would get your attention!
I am just teasing: I put this here for a reason after all.
While I wholeheartedly believe the above and find no two experiences are alike, there is a certain level of straightforwardness that simply makes things easier - we don't want to be wasting each other's time.
So my pragmatic self is telling you: our encounter will be primarily in the realm of GFE - maybe with a cheeky detour (or two) into something a bit kinkier. So, while I am open-minded, definitely no stranger to kink and very much enjoy exploring different fantasies. However, if your tastes lean towards hardcore experiences rather than sensual/playful/exploratory, I would recommend seeing one of the wonderful ladies who specialise in them.
Out in the world or behind closed doors, it comes down to the same thing: your space, unhurried, unjudged and entirely yours. If that sounds like the kind of connection you're looking for, I suspect we'll get along wonderfully.
